Well, it's the year 2008, I'm 41 years old, most of my family lives 3000 miles away, and I don't see my friends often enough to maintain a close circle of confidants, so it's starting to apear to me, that if I want to avoid the spiral of worsening seclusion that inevitably leads to being a cranky old man who scares away the neighborhood kids, I've got to start doing something different with myself. And while I don't believe for a moment that the internet can actually improve my life, maintaining a blog doesn't seem like all that bad an idea.
I've been reading my sisters blog for years now, and have always looked forward to reading her latest installments. Even when she digresses off into religious bliss, her written excursions have given me an insight into the life of a sibling I would otherwise never see except for the all to few impromptu family reunions.
One of the things that has been holding me back from doing this until now has actually been the self impression I've had that my life is not all that interesting to an outside observer. Well, shouldn't that be for them to decide, and not me? I have always believed that the most amazing things in ones life, have always been rooted in the mundane. Globetrotting and adventurism are not the only things in our lives worthy of mention. And as any one who has ever spent any amount of time with me will attest to, I have always had a knack for finding inadvertant adventure in the simplest measures of my life.
Simply put, weird stuff happens to me.
But my blog shouldn't always be full of strange happenings.
Lets start off with this past weekend. On Sunday, I drove up to Sacramento to visit my friends David and Sarah, who have just returned from living in England for several years. David was studying at Cambridge, so he and his wife asked me to do them a small favor of holding onto some of their belongings while they were abroad. That was almost five years ago, and David finished his studies there, and Sarah went and got herself a job in Sacramento.
Well, as many of you already know, I had a fire while they were gone, and lost some of their stuff. But not all of it. So on Sunday, I rented a MiniVan, loaded up what I had of their belongings and headed up to Sac. Well, the two of them went and brought back something beautiful from England with them...an 18 month old little girl, who is the worlds biggest FLIRT! I was instantly assigned the role of furniture as she would use me a a backrest, footstool, armchair and all-around amusement piece. The bunch of us spent several hours playing "Ring Around The Rosie" to her complete delight. I'm not sure what gave her more giggles, playing the game, or getting grown ups to play the game with her.
Well, it was great fun seeing my friends again, and I am extremely greatful to have my friends back in my life, even if it is a three hour drive to see them.
And on a different note, this morning, I got another surprise as I walked out of my apartment to go to the corner coffeeshop. For the past 16 years I have been trying to grow Redwood trees from seed. Some of you may know that this is a terribly difficult thing to do, as they are very fragile plants that are horribly sensitive to changes in soil chemistry. Well, I've been having some good success in the last couple of years, and have had more trouble with squirrels eating the shoots than I have had with the soil chemistry, and I now have a small forrest of redwood trees along with some herbs, growing in a set of window boxxes that are hanging off my communal balcony.
This morning, I found that my little forest is more inviting than I had realized. A pair of Mourning Doves have nested in one of them, and have already laid an egg. This would be quite amusing if it weren't for the fact that they make the most outrageous racket everytime I walk up and down my stairway.
Anyhow, it looks like I've got an amateur nature study going on. So as things progress on the balcony, I'll keep you, my readers updated on the lifeplay going on outside my window.
